Hi guys ! I hope you are well !
So here’s a big question for you…SHOULD I TRUMP MY GIRLFRIEND ???
Well, seriously, this topic is absolutely not about trolling or anything like that but I would like your advice, opinions, especially from those who have a little more experience, bottles and wisdom to guide me to the right path.
First of all, let me set the scene.
So here we are, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, but we’ve known each other for about a year. Everything is going incredibly well! No worries on any level, she’s really nice, funny, a good 7/10 physically and mentally it’s 12-13/10. The kind of girl who doesn’t give a shit at all. She will always do everything to make me happy. She’s not lobotomized by LGBT, BLM, etc… frankly she’s really amazing.
There is a but indeed…
Without wanting to throw flowers at me, I attract quite a few girls… and especially older ones, because indeed, given that I’m 1m95 and 115kg with about 3-4 years of muscular training, so a very good body, big arms, big back, in short the whole package, combined with a bit of humour and a chatty personality. I don’t think I’ll surprise you by telling you that this combo works very well with women.
And that’s the problem, there are quite a few girls, sometimes even fantasists, who really want me, and for whom I have refused. For example, a teacher (yes, a teacher) of mine, 29 years old (I remind you that I’m 19), with whom I had a very good relationship, wanted to sleep with me.
Another example, I went to a friend’s birthday party (more of an acquaintance than a friend), but there were some of my friend’s family there, including his aunts. And here I clearly see an aunt, 50 years old, but frankly. An easy 8-9/10, a plane, a missile, and the way she dances, and moves you can tell in bed she’s probably doing stuff from another galaxy. And this aunt, as the evening went on there was flirting, and she ended up kissing me. Finally, she wanted us to go to her place to sleep and have sex, but I refused precisely because I’m in a relationship.
And examples like that are a dime a dozen, refusing threesomes etc. for my girlfriend, in short, I have many. And the thing is that by refusing all these opportunities (which are also all my fantasies!) seriously, who at 19 years old hasn’t dreamt of having threesomes, sleeping with a teacher of his and sleeping with a 50 year old woman who, on top of that, is the aunt of a guy you know.
So basically, I’m lost, because I feel like I’m missing out on a lot of opportunities that won’t happen in the future. So I’ll have a lot of regrets because I’m clearly missing out on some real stuff. But at the same time, I clearly don’t want to cheat on my girlfriend and I really don’t want to leave her.
I repeat that this topic is really not meant to brag about me or others, you have a real DBL member looking for answers…
I’m just looking for advice and opinions as I said before, I’m really open to all suggestions and I’ll answer all your questions.
Hoping to be in the right category ( correct me if I am not ! )
Thank you very much for reading. Good evening to all.