As the title says, I have a lot of trouble holding back as the pace increases! I can see that my partners want something wilder but if I start to go harder, I finish in 20s, without enjoying it.
So for the moment, if I want to last I have to go slowly (but it’s boring for me and probably also for my partners), or I can go out and continue to stimulate my partners in other ways but if I have to do it every 20s it’s not great.
I’m working on sex toa and erection in concrete, but for the moment no result with girls.
If you have tips to better manage and increase the pace without ejaculating I would be interested, because I admit that it paise me a little!